I'm hearing you Bowb, I've been a fence sitter too.
Recently spent time with someone who went ahead and had the op and couldn't be happier. Was introduced to loads of her friends also sleevers and they all appear so happy with their decisions. Not to mention they all look great.
Only know of one not so good outcome, so not choosing that doctor. I'm not from your neck of the woods so good luck. Check out the 'August thread'.