Most people wouldnt comment to your face you wouldnt think. I know how you would be feeling though. Not sure how long you have got til the meeting perhaps try and lose a bit before the meeting (i know easier said then done). Try and find something slimming to wear and if anyone comments on your weight, just tell them its always been a struggle and at this point in your life you are struggling more then usual. For people who have never had a weight problem they wouldnt have any idea how it feels. Tell them its something you are working on. Good luck!